Growing into the person God made you to be, developing a trusting relationship, having a strong marriage, raising kids to stand on solid ground as individuals, overcoming an addiction, healing from - you name it - , getting out of debt, losing weight, etc. - all of these take time.
You don't see a caterpillar rushing to become a butterfly. It takes time and it has a process of change to go through before it becomes the butterfly it was made to be.
We are no different on our journeys.
I encourage you to...
Pause. Breathe. Pray.
Recognize there is no quick fix that will take you where you really hope to be. It will take your time. It will require you to patiently persevere through the process of change that needs to occur so you can blossom into the person you were meant to be.
It may not be easy, but it will be worth it.